really sucks...
especially when it's with two of the most prideful, stubborn people who believe what they think is correct.
It's an unstoppable force against an unmovable object.
It goes nowhere.
Peace & Blessings
Lu
Tuesday, March 4, 2008
Argumentative
Engaged in a convo with a female friend of mine who has been done wrong over and over by different men, who doesn't believe there is a such thing as a good man...I got some insight, and hope I shared some.
I told her that every man isn't the same, and that there will be alot of ones you meet who are not the ONE, which is what makes finding the ONE so special. I explained to her that she shouldn't let the bad PAST interfere with a good PRESENT...
She thought her boyfriend was being sketch...I told her that all assumed isn't true until proof...
I should be a lawyer...
for relationships. lol.
She said I made sense, yet guys always mess up...
I agreed, told her that both sexes mess up, and that girls always find something wrong with us- they may find Prince Charming, but say his sword isn't sharp enough.
diig?
I asked her why people may see something perfect in front of them, yet make excuses to not embrace it...
She pushed the fact that no one's perfect.
I agreed, and added that there are people perfect for each other.
She agreed, and added more- stating that nobody's perfect, but if you want to love someone, you must accept their flaws. BUT, if their flaw is cheating, she's certainly not willing to accept that.
Smart girl...
I told her that every man isn't the same, and that there will be alot of ones you meet who are not the ONE, which is what makes finding the ONE so special. I explained to her that she shouldn't let the bad PAST interfere with a good PRESENT...
She thought her boyfriend was being sketch...I told her that all assumed isn't true until proof...
I should be a lawyer...
for relationships. lol.
She said I made sense, yet guys always mess up...
I agreed, told her that both sexes mess up, and that girls always find something wrong with us- they may find Prince Charming, but say his sword isn't sharp enough.
diig?
I asked her why people may see something perfect in front of them, yet make excuses to not embrace it...
She pushed the fact that no one's perfect.
I agreed, and added that there are people perfect for each other.
She agreed, and added more- stating that nobody's perfect, but if you want to love someone, you must accept their flaws. BUT, if their flaw is cheating, she's certainly not willing to accept that.
Smart girl...
I feel the same about lying...
We talked about guys losing good women due to mistakes they make.
she explained that she felt that "after making the mistake before, which every guy says he has, that they wouldn't continue to fuck themselves."
i thought for a moment, then agreed...
she explained that she felt that "after making the mistake before, which every guy says he has, that they wouldn't continue to fuck themselves."
i thought for a moment, then agreed...
"we may stupidly fuck ourselves again...
but only after being handed a condom by our partner."
but only after being handed a condom by our partner."
her response was hmmm....
i smiled.
she then said "so somehow, their partner pushes them to cheat? i'm sorry, but relationships take work. what's the point of being in one if everytime you run into someone else to make you feel better?"
I replied, "you're right. its wrong to run to others...and a relationship DOES take work...so much...but what if you're the only one working for it? you get tired of working, and want to work with someone who's willing to work with you...right?"
i smiled.
she then said "so somehow, their partner pushes them to cheat? i'm sorry, but relationships take work. what's the point of being in one if everytime you run into someone else to make you feel better?"
I replied, "you're right. its wrong to run to others...and a relationship DOES take work...so much...but what if you're the only one working for it? you get tired of working, and want to work with someone who's willing to work with you...right?"
She said that's fine, but why not dead the past relationship and start something new with the one who seems to be willing to work?
I agreed, because I disagree with cheating...sneaking...lying...leading on...playing around...
It's a big wate of time, and love...
she said her man seems perfect, but what if he's a rotten egg under a perfect shell?
I told her she needs to be willing to crack the egg, because what if he ISN'T?
she said her man seems perfect, but what if he's a rotten egg under a perfect shell?
I told her she needs to be willing to crack the egg, because what if he ISN'T?
She'd stare at the egg for so long...scared to crack it, because of other rotten eggs she's cracked...
What a waste!
She said she's willing to find out...
I ended my case
She said she's willing to find out...
I ended my case
And then she brought up something new...SHE needs to be a lawyer...
for relationships...lol
She asked if you've gotten 6 bad eggs out of a dozen, when do you start to think the whole dozen is bad?
I told her you don't...until you've opened all 12.
What if you give up and throw away the carton with 6 GOOD eggs in it? You'll regret it...
How are those eggs supposed to feel?
She then answered a question that I, among many other guys ponder...
why do girls go for the "messed up guys"?
She said the reason for that was because with the "messed up guy", they can see the problems off the bat...and with perfect guys, they see the perfect shell, and are afraid to crack it. If they don't know any better, they can just live with the hope that there is at least one perfect guy out there...
Makes sense...from a woman's logic. lolShe said she just wants one...just one good guy to treat her right.
I said likewise...
Still searching for Miss Hollywood. I have hope.
I told her to promise herself to not give up until she finds one. Because they are out there...somewhere...
kinda like aliens
;-)
think about that, readers...stop messing with these Earthlings.
"...and I know i'm not all the way your cup of tea and all, but baby I'm rare! So the next time you get tired of fishing for them droids, meet me by my spaceship, baby...I'll be there!" --Holly Weerd (Love with a Weerdo)
Peace & Blessings
Lu
Shout to the E-Berin for the debate!
Monday, March 3, 2008
Someone Else
My rant was cut short by 3 words from the person in front of me...
"She likes someone."
The words had to register in my brain before I responded.
It took a minute.
"Excuse me?" I wanted to hear something else- anything else than what was said a minute ago.
"She likes someone."
Those three words deliverd the same pain as the three matching words before...
"Who?" I asked, with urgency. I wanted to know.
"Not you..."
I stared in awe, as if the deliverer of the news was the Grim Reaper.
Well, for the moment, they were.
It wasn't what you think though; the Reaper's only purpose was not to just take my soul and kill me...
Grim's main purpose was to stop my suffering...
Ponder on that for a little while.
My heart stopped, my world slowed down, emotion poured, and everything that I didn't want to come together came together as the Reaper explained the supporting evidence.
She was feeling someone else...
This explained why her actions and words didn't match up...
Why she would tell me she loved me, and that I never lost her, and blah...blah...blah...
Yet she acted as if she didn't want me around at all...
She gave me all kinds of excuses for those actions, but she never told me that there may have been someone else...
Yet she sure was acting like it...
Words are maybes...but it's the deeds that make things definite.
This is why she acted as if it was nothing to lose me...as if I wasn't something special.
Because I was replaced.
Something truly special cannot be replaced, therefore I must not have been truly special to her.
I mean, she acted like it.
I got up out of my seat and left the Grim Reaper to sit there alone...
As I walked around, I couldn't put my finger on how I felt; my emotions were mixed...
I was hurt, angry, yet relieved that I knew the motive behind her operation...
I hated not knowing...
Yet, I still felt no hatred towards her...
I still wished her the best.
I still wanted her to be happy.
So if this other guy can make her happy, and I can't- even though I tried so hard...I can do nothing but be happy for her.
She probably blushed when she met him...
Probably blushes when he's spoken of...
She blushed when she met me...
It's times like these when I want to jump in my Black Pearl, roll all the windows down and just drive...music loud, or no music at all. Looking forward as the wind blows in my face to cool me off, as I zip around corners and down straights smoothly...
No destination in mind, but to get things off my mind...
I guess I'll settle for fresh air.
You can't make somebody feel...
A pony and a dozen puppies can't make somebody feel.
Peace & Blessings
Lu
"She likes someone."
The words had to register in my brain before I responded.
It took a minute.
"Excuse me?" I wanted to hear something else- anything else than what was said a minute ago.
"She likes someone."
Those three words deliverd the same pain as the three matching words before...
"Who?" I asked, with urgency. I wanted to know.
"Not you..."
I stared in awe, as if the deliverer of the news was the Grim Reaper.
Well, for the moment, they were.
It wasn't what you think though; the Reaper's only purpose was not to just take my soul and kill me...
Grim's main purpose was to stop my suffering...
Ponder on that for a little while.
My heart stopped, my world slowed down, emotion poured, and everything that I didn't want to come together came together as the Reaper explained the supporting evidence.
She was feeling someone else...
This explained why her actions and words didn't match up...
Why she would tell me she loved me, and that I never lost her, and blah...blah...blah...
Yet she acted as if she didn't want me around at all...
She gave me all kinds of excuses for those actions, but she never told me that there may have been someone else...
Yet she sure was acting like it...
Words are maybes...but it's the deeds that make things definite.
This is why she acted as if it was nothing to lose me...as if I wasn't something special.
Because I was replaced.
Something truly special cannot be replaced, therefore I must not have been truly special to her.
I mean, she acted like it.
I got up out of my seat and left the Grim Reaper to sit there alone...
As I walked around, I couldn't put my finger on how I felt; my emotions were mixed...
I was hurt, angry, yet relieved that I knew the motive behind her operation...
I hated not knowing...
Yet, I still felt no hatred towards her...
I still wished her the best.
I still wanted her to be happy.
So if this other guy can make her happy, and I can't- even though I tried so hard...I can do nothing but be happy for her.
She probably blushed when she met him...
Probably blushes when he's spoken of...
She blushed when she met me...
It's times like these when I want to jump in my Black Pearl, roll all the windows down and just drive...music loud, or no music at all. Looking forward as the wind blows in my face to cool me off, as I zip around corners and down straights smoothly...
No destination in mind, but to get things off my mind...
I guess I'll settle for fresh air.
You can't make somebody feel...
A pony and a dozen puppies can't make somebody feel.
Peace & Blessings
Lu
Saturday, March 1, 2008
Holla At Somebody Real
"Holla At Somebody Real"
(feat. Lil Mo)
[Fabolous]
You need to holla at somebody real such as myself
Wont nobody do as much as myself
And it's so real I'll hop out and get the dutches myself
For a pretty girl as such as yaself
Cuz ima busy man that don't see too much for myself
And sometimes it be hard to get in touch with myself
But I... make the time when I have to
Learn to take my time and be careful- when dealing wit women
Theres some who be willing and skimming
And dive in to relationships cuz I got a million to swim in
They'll throw it to you faster than schilling and clemens
But feelings aint the only thing that you can catch now
Some throw lawyers that you hoping they fetch thous
Others pass diseases that you can catch now
But in my minutes alone I think about this crazy world
And.. i dont wanna live in it alone
Come on
[Chorus - Lil Mo]
Ill give you all my love
And you can always trust
My loyalty, honesty, and security (and ill never)
Ill never leave (no..no..no)
Can none of these other chicks fuck wit me
So holla at somebody real (cuz i)
Cuz im so real
[Fabolous]
(real love) Im searching for a real love like j blige in 92'
(awwwwwwh) and I pray I will find you
They say whether the storm will leave the gray skies behind you
The fake may try to blind you
Thats why I stay fly like I do
And know I can trust everybody that I say hi and bye to
First I need a girl that may die as my boo
That I may try to I do
But..I refuse to be tricked
Or used by a chick
Who gets amusement and kicks
Out abusing my dick
When its real im all in it
But I dont want the scars of love that you get when you fall in it
(noooo) before it didn't matter who
Now I look for some with a little attitude
I could chitter chatter to..
(feat. Lil Mo)
[Fabolous]
You need to holla at somebody real such as myself
Wont nobody do as much as myself
And it's so real I'll hop out and get the dutches myself
For a pretty girl as such as yaself
Cuz ima busy man that don't see too much for myself
And sometimes it be hard to get in touch with myself
But I... make the time when I have to
Learn to take my time and be careful- when dealing wit women
Theres some who be willing and skimming
And dive in to relationships cuz I got a million to swim in
They'll throw it to you faster than schilling and clemens
But feelings aint the only thing that you can catch now
Some throw lawyers that you hoping they fetch thous
Others pass diseases that you can catch now
But in my minutes alone I think about this crazy world
And.. i dont wanna live in it alone
Come on
[Chorus - Lil Mo]
Ill give you all my love
And you can always trust
My loyalty, honesty, and security (and ill never)
Ill never leave (no..no..no)
Can none of these other chicks fuck wit me
So holla at somebody real (cuz i)
Cuz im so real
[Fabolous]
(real love) Im searching for a real love like j blige in 92'
(awwwwwwh) and I pray I will find you
They say whether the storm will leave the gray skies behind you
The fake may try to blind you
Thats why I stay fly like I do
And know I can trust everybody that I say hi and bye to
First I need a girl that may die as my boo
That I may try to I do
But..I refuse to be tricked
Or used by a chick
Who gets amusement and kicks
Out abusing my dick
When its real im all in it
But I dont want the scars of love that you get when you fall in it
(noooo) before it didn't matter who
Now I look for some with a little attitude
I could chitter chatter to..
good looking
But witty and compatible
Long hair wit a fatty too
And that'll do
[chorus]
[Lil Mo]
No im not trying to pressure you
But my loves to incredible
To go to waste
It's right in front of your face
Then I give you something you can feel
To let you know your I am somebody real
[Fabolous]
I need to holla at somebody real could that be you
The feelings that I feel could that be true
Most cats lay where the hood rats be boo
But Im the kinda cat that strays away
That's til somebody real sways my way
Then I might spend some days away
On an Asia bay
Eating food made the cajun way
And sippin a lil saki
Blowin a lil brocoli
But this world is full of fluzi's
And bullshit usually
I pull em choosy
And on this joint and at this point
I know I need to holla at somebody real
For real
But witty and compatible
Long hair wit a fatty too
And that'll do
[chorus]
[Lil Mo]
No im not trying to pressure you
But my loves to incredible
To go to waste
It's right in front of your face
Then I give you something you can feel
To let you know your I am somebody real
[Fabolous]
I need to holla at somebody real could that be you
The feelings that I feel could that be true
Most cats lay where the hood rats be boo
But Im the kinda cat that strays away
That's til somebody real sways my way
Then I might spend some days away
On an Asia bay
Eating food made the cajun way
And sippin a lil saki
Blowin a lil brocoli
But this world is full of fluzi's
And bullshit usually
I pull em choosy
And on this joint and at this point
I know I need to holla at somebody real
For real
Peace & Blessings
Lu
Friday, February 29, 2008
Trendsettaz! (?)
What...
In......
The......
World.....
Why??
Last year, Jimmy killed the game by starting the whole Rock Star rapper phenom...
The tight pants- sagging to "show your ass", the bandannas, the Ed Hardy, tight shorts, glamorous belts...he started that. Killed the game. Made everyone dress like him. What do you expect though.
It's Harlemmmmm!!
Dipset's known for setting trends...
The Jerseys...
Cam'ron made pink in for men..
Jim and the rock star look...
But now turbans??
The hell??
Jim used to talk about smacking Kufis off his whole life, but now he looking like a Muslim! The hell?
Is this really about to be the new thing? Am I really about to see men walking around looking like Muslim women?
Around the neck is fine...
But as a hood?
wow...lol.
Peace & Blessings
Lu
Thursday, February 28, 2008
ARTHUR!!
Now you know...that you used to be stuck on this show...
This was my joint!
Arthur reminded me of myself...
he was fresh too! lol.
I was reminiscing...and I figured you should join me. lol
Hope it made you smile
Peace & Blessings
Lu
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